Oct 27 2009
Whats wrong with me?
I am a 43 year old female, with 3 grown children and a wonderful partner of 4 years. So why has my intrest in sex completely gone. I have read articles, and done all the internet research, and like I said talked to all the doctors, and there is not one person or article that can tell me why I have lost interest in sex. I love my partner very much, and I love being close to her, but not that close. The mental health doctors tell me its because that I am with the wrong partner, and that it all mental. The OB doctors tell me that there is nothing physical wrong with me. I have had a hysterectomy, and menopause has tried to take over, but all that started back in 2000, and up until now I have never had a problem.
Of course, my partener thinks that I dont love her because I am not interested in sex. I try to tell her that it is not her, but as everyone well knows, that explanation doesnt work. It has caused a strain on our relationship, and I can not stand it. I have even wondered if those so called miracle drugs to help females libido would work, but I have been told that is just a waste of money and that none of them work. They can come up with a drug for men, but not for women.
I wish I hade the answers, or someone else could tell me what the answers were. Anybody out there with the same issues? Or am I the Only one?
Well this is the “wife” and sometimes love is strong enough that you would not leave because of Sex.
I love my wife and while i would like to figure out what is wrong I would never leave her because of it and I love her so much.
Not all people are as shallow as others